The 3–3–3 Rule: Helping Your New Lynx Town Kitten Adjust to Their Forever Home

Bringing home a Lynx Town Maine Coon kitten is one of life’s sweetest joys—those big eyes, curious whiskers, and gentle purrs can melt even the busiest of hearts. But for your kitten, this moment is also a huge transition. New faces, new smells, new routines… it’s a lot to take in.

That’s where the 3–3–3 Rule comes in.This simple guideline helps families understand what kittens typically experience during their first days, weeks, and months in a new home—and how you can support them every step of the way.

At Lynx Town Maine Coons, we use this rule often when preparing our babies for their forever families. It’s a reassuring roadmap that reminds you: adjustment takes time, patience, and love.

🐾 The First 3 Days: Overwhelmed & Observing

The first few days are a whirlwind for your kitten. They’ve just left the only home and siblings they’ve ever known. While our babies are well-socialized and confident, even the bravest kitten will need a moment to process such a big transition.

What You May See

• Hiding or staying close to their safe room

• Hesitation with food or litter box at first

• Extra sleep

• Cautious curiosity

• Quiet meows or seeking comfort

How You Can Help

• Keep your kitten in a designated safe room with all essentials

• Sit with them quietly and let them approach on their own terms

• Maintain a calm environment with predictable routines

• Offer gentle play to build trust

• Keep introductions to other pets slow and structured

In these first days, your kitten is learning one important thing:You are safe.

🐾 The First 3 Weeks: Settling In & Building Confidence

After a week or two, you’ll start to see your kitten’s personality blossom. They begin to map out the home, understand your routine, and build a sense of security.

What You May See

• Exploring more rooms

• Bonding with you

• Playfulness increasing

• More consistent appetite

• Improved confidence with other pets

How You Can Help

• Gradually expand their world—one room at a time

• Stick to a feeding schedule to build routine

• Continue supervised introductions with pets

• Provide vertical spaces, scratching posts & enrichment

• Engage in daily play (very important for Maine Coon kittens!)

During these weeks, your kitten is learning:This is my home. These are my people.

🐾 The First 3 Months: Fully Adjusted & Flourishing

By three months, your Lynx Town kitten typically understands the household flow and is well on their way to becoming a confident, loving member of the family.

What You May See

• Strong attachment and affection

• Consistent behavior and routines

• Full integration with other pets

• Curious exploration without fear

• Clear display of their unique Maine Coon personality

How You Can Help

• Maintain their routine for structure

• Continue vet-approved diet & enrichment

• Keep up with grooming habits (especially for Maine Coons!)

• Offer lots of love, patience, and positive reinforcement

• Celebrate their milestones—they grow fast!

At this stage, your kitten is thinking:This is my life now… and I love it.

🐾 Why the 3–3–3 Rule Matters

Every kitten adjusts at their own pace. Some settle in within hours, others take weeks. The 3–3–3 rule simply reminds families to offer patience, reassurance, and plenty of love during every phase of adjustment.

At Lynx Town Maine Coons, our babies come to you already socialized, confident, and used to household rhythms—but even with the best start, transitions can be overwhelming. Understanding this timeline helps you set realistic expectations and support your kitten where they are.

The reward?A bond built on trust… and a lifetime of purrs.

❤️ From Our Hearts to Yours

Thank you for giving one of our kittens a loving home.You’re not just adopting a Maine Coon—you’re joining the Lynx Town family. We are always here to support you, guide you, and celebrate every milestone your kitten reaches.

If you ever have questions or concerns during the adjustment process, please reach out. We love hearing from our families.

Warmly,

Carolyn & the Lynx Town Maine Coons Crew

Where every kitten begins their story with love.

Where every kitten begins their story with love.